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Dre BeltramiKeymaster
YESSS!! It’s so time. You deserve a business that feels good! It’s so much easier when you do the shit you love too. And you’ll get to the things you really want… there’s a weird momentum that’s created when you start saying no to everything but what really feels right. I so happy you’re finding your way, sweets!
Dre BeltramiKeymasterGood riddens to the aholes who have taken pride in tearing you down!! 🍷 Fuck those bastards.
I can relate to the good day/bad day struggle so hard. It used to take me weeks, if not months, to recover from the smallest shit. YEARS into the healing and the recover time is down to minutes, sometimes hours. Some days (when the sleepless nights have piled up and I’m hormonal AF) it feels soooooo exhasuting carrying on with all the work it takes to stay in my ‘Fuck it!’ place. I HATE those days… it’s crazy how quickly my perception can change at the drop of a hormone.
I’m preparing the donkey dick for your imposter syndrome to feast on right now! 🤣
Dre BeltramiKeymasterI 2nd ALL of this!!!
Dre BeltramiKeymasterYESSS, the self-acceptance journey is real!! and I so know what you mean about it being the lens.
I love being able to fuck up (or fail) and immediately de-escalate it in my end… that has taken me years to be able to do but it’s slowly getting more and more natural as I practice it.
I love that you’re seeing all the growth from it too!!! 🥳
Dre BeltramiKeymasterYESSS!! It’s crazy how much confidence really changes, right??!
Dre BeltramiKeymasterBwahahahahaha, yessss!!
Dre BeltramiKeymasterI love this!!! Doing what you want… yessss!
Dre BeltramiKeymasterIntroverts forever! Isn’t it crazy how we can see how it’s a superpower but ‘they’ couldn’t/can’t?
I truly don’t get how it’s that hard to understand. I mean, we get how extroverts work and why they need what they need. It blows my mind.
My britches are so big I can carry my son around in them like a kangaroo pouch.
I’m glad you’ve bedazzled your expandable britches with a ‘fuck you’ insignia. Get it, girl.
The BS they tell us freethinking women in corporate America should be a fucking crime. Some of the dick-holes at my last job would make the pointing-at-your-mouth sign for smiling during meetings when I was talking because I was ‘coming across very aggressive’. I wasn’t. I was calling out people above my pay grade on their shit and making a point that made me look smarter than them. That’s it.
I had soooooo much corporate baggage when I started my first business.
Dre BeltramiKeymasterME!!!! **she says waving her hand in the air like a crazy person**
So much ME.
And I la la la loooooove that ‘blackishly-rainbowed sheep of the family’… yep, nailed it!
Realizing how much my family fucked me up for being so different from them has been like 80% of my journey of figuring out who the fuck I am. All the shit I really love about myself is the shit they have shamed me for. It’s been a HUGE lifelong mindfuck… I’m untangling myself of for good.
Byyyyyeeeeee
Dre BeltramiKeymasterYESSS! Now that I’ve healed from enough of my trauma + escaped the toxicity of my family I can finally taste what life looks like with peace in it. I’m not giving this shit up again, EVER… not for anyone. I’m so unwilling to let anyone even side-eye my joy let alone suck that shit dry.
To all that inner peace, girl!! 🍷
Dre BeltramiKeymasterI can relate to so much of this! I love the way you said it, ‘read myself the riot act’… OMG… yes!! I still do that shit at least every other week. 🤣
I hope the ‘saying no more than yes’ part becomes less terrifying for you because you’re getting way more out of those you-shaped no’s than you’re losing. You don’t need all the grief that comes with a “desperate’ yes client – they are THE WORST.
If you ever need anything on the messaging side don’t be shy. I’m hoping this theme party will give you a boatload more AH HA’s that help you find the right words.
Dre BeltramiKeymasterYessss! Damn girl, you’re a hell of a writer – I could see + feel the place you’re describing. 🔥
Soooo, how much of your business do you think you’ve run from this place vs. from a place of self don’t + worry? If you don’t mind me prying.
Just wondering if you can start to trace back some of your decisions to see what head place you made them in.
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